abortion ~discussion section~

Knew this discussion will get some feed back, so please go on-
As far as I know, talking about an abortion is not a “taboo” thing to talk nowadays.
People do sneak up & judging of these things, but don’t you think it’s good to know the reasons, before judging whether it’s against God’s will or not? Whether it’s against the law? Whether it’s not about killing some human spirit? And others …

Ok, now. We’re talking about law- ..
Where did that law comes from? All those rules about how and what people can or not allowed to do? Isn’t coming from human being?
What concepts are lying behind this? How could they bring a matter and judge that it was not right thing to do? Or which one is right thing to do?
Killing human life is wrong, I do know that. But then again, don’t we need to re-think of causes behind it? Why is it not allowed to do, for not listening reasons behind?

I’m here not to judge which is right or wrong to do. But I have concern of people, who push their mind of “this is wrong” or “this is right to do”.

For example;
Was it wrong for a woman to loves someone and having a baby?
But when things turn out that they are not able to be together, for he’s bow to other’s, and … she decides for an abortion?
For reasons, that things will not go easier? Not living with the person, she loves?
Reasons of finance issue? Family issue? Self confidences? Fail future prediction? Or maybe for some more issues, we never think about it before?

YES, she did the abortion.
Does this means that she killed someone’s life? Child abuse? It’s not even a child yet-
And what if later on, the bright future broken into her life. Having good family and children, without revealing past?!

NO, she kept the baby.
Was this the best way to have? If later on, her life is miserable for having baby without father. Man avoiding her, no more loyal friends around. Difficulty on the finance of feeding 2 mouths?!

Is it a mistake to have it done like that? Is this her mistake? Is it his mistake? Their mistakes? Or other’s people mistake? Who knows and who has the right to judge?
Or it just too exaggerated to bring up this discussion?

Able to have right decision needs is great. And not all people have it.
But when it comes to a diffusion moment, who could you blame?
Yourself? Your partner? The world? Your miserable life? Who?

We do things for reasons, which we think its best for us.
People make mistakes.
Which side are you in?